Your New Family Matters


"I had to create a new family, y'all. I want to invite you to do the same."


Hey, Beautiful People!

Can I share something with you?

I love the hell out of my family. But I also had to create my own to break a few chains and activate new powers. How about you? Do you have chosen family?

After watching Paris is Burning back in the day, I came up with the idea to create my own family to honor my queerness, creativity, and step fully into the Mama Perle nickname. That was quite the journey—one I’ll share another time.

What I will say for now is that chosen family was especially beautiful during the pandemic, when I made the decision to stop giving my mother access to me until she learned how to stop harming me. I also experienced betrayal and heartbreak from members of my chosen family, which led me home to a new family.

I created a new family with my inner child, my inner diva, my spiritual team, and the woman in the mirror. I want you to do the same.

If you have anxiety, fear, or feel nervous about honoring your boundaries with family or staying committed to your healing during the holidays, I created a guide for you. Trusting the family living inside of you will help you show up with family and the world like your powerful ancestors are watching and cheering you on!

The Healing Through the Holidays Guide is an intimate, transformation-based guide centered on emotional regulation, boundary work, and sensual self-reconnection during one of the most triggering times of year.

The guide is available for $88 until November 14th.

Before Healing Through the Holidays:

  • Feeling drained or resentful after family gatherings
  • Emotional regression around family
  • Body shame or disconnection
  • Repeating trauma cycles during “family time”

After Healing Through the Holidays:

  • Reclaiming your safety and sensual power
  • Incorporating embodied rituals for boundary protection
  • Trusting your confidence and tapping into joy during family gatherings
  • Integration of ancestral healing

I hope you show up for yourself today. If you have any questions about the guide, please reply to this email.

xoxo,
Perle