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Hi! I'm Perle.

As CEO of Healing Through Seduction, I help women use the art of burlesque and self-seduction to heal and reclaim their power. I'm dedicated to helping women find their inner strength and confidence to live their best lives. Think of me as your sensual Jiminy Cricket! POW!

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Your Free Masterclass with Perle

Hey, My last free masterclass of the year is happening on November 16th from 1pm EST until I feel complete. I will offer a burlesque ritual, a short burlesque routine, and open the floor to questions about my upcoming Noire Friday sale, incorporating my rituals into your everyday life, and all things self-seduction. Come through! It is open to the public so anyone can come, including your loved ones. If you have any questions, please reply to this email. xoxo Perle REGISTER HERE AND FEEL FREE...
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You're Not Hugging Trees and It Shows! POW!

Hello, lovely! I’m writing to encourage you to spend your Sunday immersed in the sounds of the wind and the warmth of the sun. If you can, take a walk and focus on the art of seduction. Flirt with the clouds, the flowers, the air, and the trees. Engage with nature, sugar. Take a moment to talk to the trees and their roots, asking for guidance and joy. If you encounter a sunflower, let yourself be captivated by her beauty. And if you prefer to stay in, take a moment to breathe deeply and...
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Ghosting vs. Honoring Your Boundaries 🦚

Darling, Ghosting yourself or neglecting your own needs isn’t the same as honoring your boundaries. Whether it's a romantic partner, an intimate friend, or even yourself, avoiding communication or withdrawing can cause more harm than good. Today, I’m inviting you to reflect on your approach to intimacy and communication. If you’ve been ghosting parts of yourself or struggling with how you connect with others, it’s time for a shift. Instead of disappearing or shutting down, consider how you...
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What happens when you don't ask for consent?

Hi there, Sometimes, what we label as imposter syndrome or self-esteem issues might actually be a call for something deeper—self-consent. In my burlesque workshops and performances, self-consent is the first principle I teach because it’s the foundation of truly connecting with yourself and others. Self-consent means giving yourself permission before engaging in any action, whether it’s answering a call or making a commitment. It’s about exploring your boundaries, building confidence through...
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Trust Your Body

Darling, Burlesque isn’t just about showing off your body; it’s about deeply trusting and embracing it. I know past experiences might make you wary of stepping into your full feminine power. It’s natural to fear what others might think if you shine too brightly but remember this: the greatest risk is losing yourself. It’s time to prioritize your own sense of self over the fear of what others might say or do. Here’s a ritual to help you reconnect with your body’s wisdom and power, allowing you...
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I wanted to shake my client!

Darling, Every time a client of mine tells themselves they’re not healing or honoring their power because they missed a week of class or are dealing with toxic thoughts or imposter syndrome, I want to shake them and get them to stop. You don’t have to be perfect to be worthy with yourself. I remember when I had to shake myself. I didn’t trust my power after willingly giving it up to my ex-fiancé. I felt completely defeated after canceling an international tour and a Las Vegas show to get...
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Maybe It's Time To Forgive And Learn

Hey, I wanted to share a special look inside my burlesque program, where community and ongoing support are at the heart of everything we do. One way I nurture this beautiful community is by offering sessions with the amazing coaches I learn from myself. Our beloved coach, Anna Brooke, aka Rev. Legs Malone, has been my guiding star for over 10 years. Currently, I'm working with her in her Forgiveness Lab, and she recently offered us a transformative self-forgiveness and burlesque workshop. I...
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Reconnect with Yourself: The Power of Daily Consent

Hey, In my recent Instagram workshop, we took a profound journey into reconnecting with ourselves. Let’s take a moment to reflect on that practice and bring its essence into our daily lives. When we want to tap into our bodies, it’s crucial to start by asking for consent. Our disconnection often stems from experiences we didn’t consent to, like seeing unexpected traumatic images while scrolling through Instagram. These uninvited moments linger in our bodies, causing us to feel disconnected...
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It's My Birthday, But You're Receiving A GIFT From Me!

Heyyy!!! I am officially 45! I have survived the ghetto, being tricked into prostitution, abusive relationships, and my own self-hatred. Now, I'm a certified Burlesque MILF! Ha! Baby, I made it! I made it!!!! Now, I am ready to celebrate with you! I don't have to ask you if I have ever inspired you or if my emails, workshops, or programs have helped you. I know how powerful my work is. I will ask if you're willing to help me achieve my goal today. I want to help 888 people reconnect to their...
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